Skip the apps. Skip the swiping. Soon: a short phone call with someone who actually understands your family, your culture, and what you're looking for. She'll introduce you to one person at a time.
Beta, I think you'll like Priya. Her family is also from Hyderabad and she has the same dry humor as you.
A 20-minute conversation. About you, your family, what you actually want. She listens for the things that don't fit in a form. Caste, religion, language, how involved your parents are, what your mom would say.
Auntyji works through her network. Not algorithms throwing 40 profiles at you. One person at a time, with a real explanation of why she thinks you'll click.
Double opt-in. She brings you both into a text thread, gives you each a few things to talk about, then steps back. Weekly check-ins after, to see how it went and recalibrate.
"Beta, I'm not Tinder. I'm not Shaadi.
I'm the Auntyji you wish your mom had,
without the gossip."